The Ten Commandments of Doll Ownership

marylike · Post by **marylike** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 12:21 am

I saw an article today, this is some some Suggestions about the store and buy baby dolls, don't know if I put the subject position is right, but there are some things for a doll novice, is very important, as a new doll, I think you can take a good look at, but if you are a doll veteran, you can also give us your advice, so let's take a look at it!
When you become the owner of a sex doll,there are certain things you should do to assure you enjoy your “relationship”. These are the ten commandments i follow with sex doll owner.
1、You shall be able to move your doll. Dolls are heavy – between 50 and 100 pounds of dead, uncooperative weight. They cannot move on their own, so you should be able to lift your doll at least long enough to place “her” on a wheelchair, storage area, or hanging post. Many doll owners forget this commandment and purchase a doll too heavy for them. My rule of thumb for purchasing dolls is dividing my weight by 5 – that is the maximum weight I can lift comfortably.

2、You shall not abuse of your doll. Sex dolls are expensive items – they all cost between $500 to $10,000 –, but they are incredibly fragile for an item designed to be fucked. If you are rough with your doll, it will break down so quickly you will feel you wasted your money. I have seen dolls totally destroyed by their owners because they did BDSM with them, or because they insisted in having the doll hanging while they fucked them. I compare that to buying a brand new Audi or a BMW and then using it for a demolition derby. Totally dumb…

3、You shall learn basic repairing skills. Since we are talking about the fragility of sex dolls, I have to tell you something: No matter how delicate you treat your doll, it will break. Finger pokes, broken skeleton joints, messed up eyes, torn orifices, and delamination (layers of material separating) are completely common “injuries” among sex dolls. You should learn basic repairing skills such as applying silicone to finger pokes and torn orifices, eye replacement, and the most common – finger nail replacement. You give maintenance to your car, don’t you?

4、You shall have clothes and accessories for your doll. When you purchased your sex doll, you purchased a specific model because it looked real. Guess what? You looked at marketing photos – photos made to show the product its best so you feel attracted to purchase it. You can replicate that initial attraction, but it requires some effort from your part. You need to get your lady clothes, wigs, and other accessories to maintain that attraction. You need to (gasp) go shopping for your lover so you feel comfortable playing with “her”.

5、You shall give your doll a name. In other cultures, names are sacred – they define who you are and where you came from. To really make your doll yours, “she” needs a name. “Her” name will enhance the playtime, since now you are not humping a pile of rubber, plastic, or cloth – now you are having sex with the representation of the woman of your dreams.

6、You shall give your doll an origin story. This goes hand in hand with the name and the accessories. Creating an origin story develops a personality for your doll. That personality defines the wig, clothes, and accessories you will buy for her. Is your fantasy woman a high-end escort? Then the wig and dress will be totally different from the ones used if your fantasy is having sex with a super heroine, a space queen, or an Indian (dot, not feather) princess. Is your fantasy lover even human? I know a couple of guys having demon dolls and I have two elves in my collection. No matter what type of doll, that back story will enhance your playing time by making the fantasy more and more realistic.

7、You shall always keep your doll clean. This to me is a no-brainer. The last thing you want is to get an infection from your doll – after all that is one one of the reasons to prefer dolls! Here I make emphasis on the orifices used for sex. If you cum inside “her”, be sure you clean your mess before storing her. Leaving your lady all dirty inside means creating the conditions to develop mold and bacteria. You don’t want to throw away your expensive toy because is all black inside her pussy, do you?

8、You shall not share your doll. I have learned that people do not take care of things they do not own. Anyone who have lent a tool to a friend knows what I mean – the tool returns broken, with missing parts, and often it never returns. If I do not share my tools, much less I will lend you something where you are going to cum. Do not ask me to use one of my dolls. Period.

9、You shall treat your doll as you would treat a human. One of the arguments I often hear about doll owners is that we “objectify women”. My response to this argument is: If you meet a guy who has a destroyed sex doll in his possession, get away from that guy. Humans tend to treat anything with a humanoid shape as a human. If a guy destroys a doll or purchases a doll or mannequin for the whole purpose of practicing some torture style, be sure that guy will torture a human.

10、You shall never forget your doll is just a sex toy. Although I name my dolls, purchase things for them, and create complex back stories to enhance my fantasies, I do not forget these dolls are toys – toys I can fuck, but still toys. They represent my fantasies and desires, but they are inanimate objects that cannot respond to my feelings outside the fantasy playing in my brain.

Endless War · Post by **Endless War** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 12:49 am

david 68 · Post by **david 68** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 2:55 am

seagull · Post by **seagull** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 2:59 am

marylike that was a damn fine summation of a doll owner's duty of care

cbrodus · Post by **cbrodus** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 11:27 am

ugh...I'm a noob.
and I broke the commandments before I even got started! Too heavy for me. I wanted a tall girl. I saw the weight when I ordered her, but it did not hit me until I had to move the box from my porch to inside my door. Right then I knew I might have a problem.
I wish I'd found this forum first. Now I'll probably end up having to sell her and start shopping again.

A shame, too. LOVE the look of the body I got. Do they have a diet plan for dolls?

kanna · Post by **kanna** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 1:53 pm

cbrodus wrote:ugh...I'm a noob.
and I broke the commandments before I even got started! Too heavy for me. I wanted a tall girl. I saw the weight when I ordered her, but it did not hit me until I had to move the box from my porch to inside my door. Right then I knew I might have a problem.
I wish I'd found this forum first. Now I'll probably end up having to sell her and start shopping again.

A shame, too. LOVE the look of the body I got. Do they have a diet plan for dolls?

Not an uncommon situation at all I hear. It'd be really nice if more vendors would have a visible "ordering your first doll? Read this first." page somewhere on their site that's
hard to miss that'd advice on the most common newbie mistakes and how to avoid them.

No diet plan, unfortunately. It's either hit the gym and workout like mad so you become able to handle her or get a lighter weight one instead.
... well, I suppose you could try using the doll for a workout too, but... that's probably a little too much too fast.

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 7:10 pm

Balanced and well conceived!

Best wishes

Harem

Mr Franz · Post by **Mr Franz** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 7:20 pm

#10 needs work. My dolls are much more than mere sex toys and were not even purchased for that purpose.

kevinth1985 · Post by **kevinth1985** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 8:08 pm

Mr Franz wrote:#10 needs work. My dolls are much more than mere sex toys and were not even purchased for that purpose.

Gonna second this one. Jenny is not a sex toy to me, she is my partner.

Post by **Booty Call Dolls** » Sat Jan 11, 2020 8:15 pm

What doll did you get that was too heavy?

Stewie studmuffin · Post by **Stewie studmuffin** » Sun Jan 12, 2020 1:53 am

I have to disagree with #10. If one can truly suspend disbelief and imagine their dolls as living entities, then the doll experience will be that much more awesome.

Nanako · Post by **Nanako** » Sun Jan 12, 2020 4:25 am

Agreed.

"just a sex toy" is an extremely narrow assessment of what these wonderful dolls actually mean to so many of us who are fortunate enough to own them. To some they are truely life-changing, in the best sense of the word, and can open up feelings and emotions that are either new, or unexplored for far too long. Yes, sex is one aspect of their being, but that is but one slice of a larger pie.

Arthur1960 · Post by **Arthur1960** » Sun Jan 12, 2020 5:22 am

If someone said to my Sarah that she was just a 'sex toy' she would give them her scariest frosty look and not speak to them for a week! Seriously though our ladies are sooooo much more then that, I realised this within the first hour of Sarah's arrival back in 2016 and since then she and her sisters have been such a positive aspect of my life to the point I can't imagine being without them!

Dai Otaku · Post by **Dai Otaku** » Sun Jan 12, 2020 8:13 am

marylike wrote: 1、You shall be able to move your doll. Dolls are heavy – between 50 and 100 pounds of dead, uncooperative weight. They cannot move on their own, so you should be able to lift your doll at least long enough to place “her” on a wheelchair, storage area, or hanging post. Many doll owners forget this commandment and purchase a doll too heavy for them.

Before I purchased my doll, I put water bottles in a huge bag, as many as needed to get almost the same weight as the doll's weight.
So I could find out if I'm able to carry the doll in the first place by lifting up the bag.

GooseLooney · Post by **GooseLooney** » Sun Jan 12, 2020 9:13 am

Arthur1960 wrote:If someone said to my Sarah that she was just a 'sex toy' she would give them her scariest frosty look and not speak to them for a week! Seriously though our ladies are sooooo much more then that, I realised this within the first hour of Sarah's arrival back in 2016 and since then she and her sisters have been such a positive aspect of my life to the point I can't imagine being without them!