Thanks for having my back. I agree with you and disagree with kruiser that a woman not approving of a doll sucks. Dolls just simply aren't accepted yet. This is the vast majority of people. So all people suck? I don't think so. I don't think there's anything wrong with dolls, but I also don't think there's anything wrong with thinking they're weird. That's just how it is.ilikedolls123 wrote:You tell him to basically not let others control his life, yet here you are questioning his decision which is, in his own words, "the biggest mistake of my life". By questioning his decision to begin with, you DO realize that puts you into the category of "other people" trying to control his life, right?? If you truly want him to control his life, then you would respect his decisions and not question them in the first place. To do otherwise shows that you want a certain amount of control in his life...to decide on the doll the way YOU want him to decide, not him.kruiser wrote:...we are questioning the fact he is selling his doll to avoid conflict with a real girl who he thinks will think badly of him because he bought it. We are telling him that allowing other people to control your life when you are a grown adult is the path to misery...
And what's with this attitude of, "if a woman doesn't approve of a doll she basically sucks"? I'll bet there are PLENTY of women out there who would make fantastic partners despite disproving of a doll. Heck, some people out there would prefer a woman who would not approve of their guy have a doll. Making a blanket judgement like that says more of the person making the judgement than it does of the person they are judging.
Exactly. That was obvious from the first post. And I, along with some others, respected his decision.kruiser wrote:I think he has already decided what to do anyway so that's that.
But hey, if the guy comes back and says he decided to keep the doll, then you can pat yourself on the back.
Kruiser, it kinda sounds like you've had bad experiences with women. I've only had two gf, including my current one. I'm just really bad at getting girls since I'm an introverted homebody. But the two gfs I've had were both amazing. I may have been sad when my first gf and I broke up, but I wouldn't trade those amazing months we shared for the world, especially no doll. The woman isn't dictating whether I own a doll or not, she's merely made me realize that I no longer have any need for it. And that even if we break up, I shouldn't give up and buy a doll, I should pursue real women, because there is simply no comparison. Simply receiving a "good morning *kissy face*" text in the morning can go a long way in brightening my day. Something no doll could ever do.