Resources For Suicide Prevention

seagull · Post by **seagull** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 4:49 pm

Smoker nailed it with facts
And the forum provides a resource, can't rescue everybody but that won't stop us bloody well trying

seagull · Post by **seagull** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 4:53 pm

SynthetikReality95
Yeah man, a few of us have been there, was no fun at all but we came out the other side and maybe for long enough to go through natural causes

ThatOneGuy · Post by **ThatOneGuy** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 5:17 pm

Suicide is unfortunately seen as a temporary illness or a temporary lapse in judgement. However, it is a life long battle that never ends. Once you have the thought it is permanently there. Going through a bad time? Guess what thought decides to pop up, suicide. Unfortunately this isn't something you can just talk about and it goes away. Most people and therapists don't want to talk about it. I don't blame them to an extant, it's a hard discussion to have with anyone.

I've found that my depression and suicidal thoughts require drastic life changing solutions to combat. Last time I was suicidal I bought a doll. After years of depression I've decided to sell 90 percent of my possessions and I have had a drastic mood increase from doing so. What I'm trying to say is, talking won't fix it. Changing how you live will though. My lifestyle went from being a tomb of nostalgia and memories, into a fluid future where who knows what happens next. I suppose that's chaotic, but it's nice not feeling trapped for once. Sometimes you have to say fuck it and just start over.

CF · Post by CF » Sat Nov 28, 2020 7:06 pm

Just want to say thank you to everyone who has contributed to this thread, or simply read it.

Stay safe and let's continue to look out for one another.

seagull · Post by **seagull** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 7:32 pm

ThatOneGuy, I suppose that's chaotic
My normal but to some it seems chaotic

Anung Un Rama · Post by **Anung Un Rama** » Sat Nov 28, 2020 11:54 pm

Over the last few years, I have been doing a lot of work with Guitars for Vets Australia

https://guitarsforvetsaustralia.com/

I donate guitar parts, DIY guitar kits, building DIY lessons and some instruction and coaching time to those that wish to keep practicing.

I am one of many whom also are involved, as being a vet and a reasonable player, this is something that is not only beneficial to my mindset, but also helps others in need.

There is a organization in the USA

https://guitars4vets.org/

with many chapters

https://guitars4vets.org/about-us/find-a-chapter/

and Canada as well

https://vetscanada.org/english/guitars-for-vets

with more countries getting involved daily.

Some cool merch to

https://newd-clothing-company.myshopify ... s-for-vets

So even if you are not a vet, a great organization to get involved with that can help with your own inner demons, through music, creativity and involvement

and maybe even learn how to build your own Gibsons, like this custom ltd edition LP FR axcess

Anung

seagull · Post by **seagull** » Sun Nov 29, 2020 12:01 am

Wow! Those guys are real people, with hearts and minds that care

paizuri4lyfe · Post by **paizuri4lyfe** » Mon Feb 08, 2021 10:23 am

wow what an amazing topic to have here on the forum. it is very unfortunate for this to be happening and its really hard to prevent when we cant physically be there to help the individual. but this is an awesome place to look for help as we are all brothers here in this community. i have found that having a sex toy can fill a little gap in between where you feel loneliness.

Elektron42 · Post by **Elektron42** » Wed Apr 13, 2022 12:19 am

I was hoping that having a doll friend would reduce my depression, but she just brought out the ugly truth of my ED, increasing the depression.

CF · Post by CF » Wed Apr 13, 2022 1:23 am

Elektron42 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 13, 2022 12:19 am I was hoping that having a doll friend would reduce my depression, but she just brought out the ugly truth of my ED, increasing the depression.

Consider bringing up your concerns on your next doctor’s visit. Many men (especially older ones) attest to the potency of beet juice as well as vitamin supplements like Maca.

On some level, all of us have been depressed since early 2020. We are all trying to navigate weird, difficult times.

dll_ops · Post by **dll_ops** » Fri May 13, 2022 12:50 am

Thanks for addressing this topic. We should not be fearful in helping someone through those dark times in life. Been there and done that on both sides of the spectrum. Hang tough

You can only do one day at a time.

Doll Dreamer · Post by **Doll Dreamer** » Fri May 13, 2022 3:32 am

If I may share a favorite quote from the movie, Contact (1997) that has often prodded me to get out of my comfort zone and reach out to others if I am feeling down--or worse. The below quote is spoken by a representative of an alien race who briefly meets the explorer from Earth, Ellie Arroway, to answer a few questions, to comfort her, and to let her know she (and the human race) is not alone in the Universe. (Contact is a great movie if you enjoy speculative science fiction. It's a feel good movie.)

"You're an interesting species. An interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams, and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable, is each other."

MANABU · Post by **MANABU** » Fri May 13, 2022 5:30 am

if you are fairly new, but somehow ended up here. The link in my signature may be of help if you are here looking for help and another angle of insight.
i've literally been there.

cheungsisy · Post by **cheungsisy** » Tue Jun 13, 2023 1:15 am

It is an incredibly good idea to put up this post, since suicidal feelings can occur even if someone had the best sex doll in the world. Not joking.

NoFrillsmoreFrills · Post by **NoFrillsmoreFrills** » Sat Jun 24, 2023 2:03 pm

Hallo, ich schreibe mal auf deutsch und hoffe das euer Übersetzer besser ist als der von Google ( von dem bekomme ich Depressionen )
Ich hab eine vielleicht nicht ganz unumstrittene Meinung vom Freitod, das kommt sicher daher das ich schon mehrfach reanimiert werden musste und die Erfahrung des Todes am eigenem Leib erfahren habe. Vornweg " so schlimm war es nicht" als Erfahrung. Das einzige - beim letzten Mal hat es so lang gedauert das ich die Hälfte meines Lebens vergessen hatte ( O2 Mangel ).
'Da drüben ist nichts und es tut auch nicht weh'. Ich hab mir meinen Lebensmut nie nehmen lassen auch nicht durch so etwas. Würde der Arzt mir aber sagen ich hätte nur noch ein bißchen Zeit würde ich nicht warten bis es schmerzt - schon der Würde wegen. Die Würde ,für jeden Menschen wie auch für mich sehe ich als höchstes Gut. (Ist mehr Wert als alles Geld )
Darum muss ( für mich) ein jeder das Recht haben stets frei entscheiden zu können - Bedingungslos.
NFmF