MeLikey wrote:I have been pouring over this forum myself for about month now. I wasn't at all interested in the Boy Toy's at first, but I just love them now. I am still saving and have not mentioned them to my wife (of only 3 years) yet. I was going to go for the Body B face A of the RD2 line and offer to get the penis attactchment for her. But if she says yes to the doll but not to the penis, I will get a Boy Toy!! I think that these dolls are just wonderful works of art! I hope she says yes either way! Boy Toys don't have the optional penis attachment do they?
Tread carefully. A relatively new bride could be made to feel very insecure by such a realistic sex toy with measurement ratios no real person could naturally have for the most part. I would suggest leaving a photo up on the computer or the website that she can come across and see how and if she reacts and then use that as a way to start a conversation. If after she finds a photo a couple times or that website up a couple times she still says nothing about it or you can tell she is upset about it, but won't say anything, that might be a sleeping dog you just want to leave alone for a while. If your wife has no bi-sexual tendencies a penis adapter on a female body would likely sound ridiculous to her unless she is hankering for some woman to plow her with a strap-on.
Some women, especially if they are sexually receptive to their partner can be really hurt by their partner's interest in a doll, much as you likely would be if your wife was sleeping with another man (Yes the doll isn't real, but for many women it isn't sex, it's making love, so if you are having sex with such a realistic toy it is little different than if you were having sex with another woman). Also, many can be made to feel unattractive because you fancy a sex toy to play with rather than them. If your wife is not sexually receptive and that is at the root of this, that's a serious problem after only three years of marriage, and in that case I would say the money for a doll would be better spent on marriage counseling, as you didn't marry your wife to have sex with a doll. If she is receptive, but you still feel the need for more sex than she is willing to provide or due to circumstances like travel for work she is often gone, you may still want to seek some counseling to work through those matters first before bringing up a doll. If she is gone a lot, physically unable to have sex, or even after counseling still has no interest in sex, then as part of that counseling maybe that is a proposed solution that she would accept better than you going outside the marriage to prostitutes, escorts, or affairs. A marriage with major sexual differences early on is likely headed for trouble if the elephant in the room isn't discussed openly.
One thing to keep in mind is that for women sex is often much more than a physical act. Even if they are bi-curious or bi-sexual they may have no interest in a doll that just lays there while they ride a dildo attached to it. The world's fanciest Dildo likely is less than 10% of the cost of the cheapest silicone sex doll and for many women that is as good or better than a 70+ pound doll they can't even lift or get into a position they like for sex/masturbation.
I will warn you that trying to sell buying a doll as a work of art that has three functional holes in it, would be tough. Unless she is into collecting fashion dolls, the art angle is probably going to look like you are thinking she's stupid (To her). Also woe to you if you buy it as art and she catches you putting the spurs to it sometime.
Good luck regardless.