POLL:What is your Relationship Status ?

[jerryboy]

I can perhaps be the best witness to the issues between women and men having worked in public assistance programs for years. I have heard from women themselves and can tell you that when they are young, they are driven by the need to have a family. Those hormones kick in and in lots of cases, don't promote good decisions by them. They choose bad and inadequate men to support those needs and when it's all over take it out on the ones who really deserve the loving of a good woman. They are complicated during that process. Now they are assisted by so many govt. programs, that many of them feel they don't need men to survive, but just to make babies for them. Of course if you fall into that trap, you will be tied to alimony and support for many years and not have the loving relationship you thought having kids would bring. It's risky and some of us like me don't want to find out how it might turn out if we went down that path. I met young ladies, nice ones too, that I only wish I had before they got pregnant by mr dud. But I quickly recover my senses and realize it's out of my hands anyway. Our dolls don't replace this failure in our society but rather keep us company when were alone at night. Keeps the trouble from pro's or seedy ladies away and helps us get though the days. Perhaps one day we might fill that missing Gap in ourselves with someone we can live with and compromise with, but until that day, a doll will do.

[happiness]

I am married and we are 'waiting' for our first doll. She is a Realdoll f2/b7, and will be shipped within the next two weeks. This is so exciting!

[mike1971]

I'm married for the last 8 yrs to a nice/attractive MILF(10 yrs older than me).But life gets boring and she's not into anything other than missionary.
Option #1)Cheat and risk losing half my assets and pay alimony.
Option #2)Buy a RD and enjoy life.
I'm sure many of you can relate.....
BTW she says she's ok with it...but I think it bothers her a bit.All women want to think they are the most attractive thing in your life.Well she got used to my dirty magazines,movies,peep shows,sex toys etc.So I guess she'll get used to our soon to be new addition to the house.

[theodoric]

I'm married for the last 8 yrs to a nice/attractive MILF(10 yrs older than me).But life gets boring and she's not into anything other than missionary.
Option #1)Cheat and risk losing half my assets and pay alimony.
Option #2)Buy a RD and enjoy life.
I'm sure many of you can relate.....
BTW she says she's ok with it...but I think it bothers her a bit.All women want to think they are the most attractive thing in your life.Well she got used to my dirty magazines,movies,peep shows,sex toys etc.So I guess she'll get used to our soon to be new addition to the house.

be VERY careful . . those things you listed are all considered "normal" in most divorce courts

a life sized realistic doll might not be

you might want to ask a lawyer about any laws or precedents involving "sex toys" and what is or isnt considered "normal/acceptable" where you live

or you might get a very nasty surprise if your wife decides she is tired of your toys and she decides to file for divorce . . just because she says this now "BTW she says she's ok with it" . . . doesnt mean she is going to be ok with it after it arrives and she sees what her new competition looks like . . it may bother her WAY more than "a bit"

dont kid yourself . . women HATE competition . . of ANY sort . . and the more serious the competition . . (the better looking it is) . . the more they are going to hate it . . porn mags and vids . . even a fleshlight . . are very non-human in appearance . . even an inflatable doll doesnt look very realistic

one of the "high end" dolls like RD, 4woods, PIB, etc . . is a whole different matter . . . . you might find your wife has VERY serious problems with you doinking something that looks like a hot little thing in her 20's


I am not saying that "will" happen . . . . just be careful . . or you could find yourself on the receiving end of a very nasty divorce that hammers you into the ground

[mike1971]

Thank you for the good advice Theodoric.Our marriage isn't doing that good for the last two years since losing our high-end lifestyle to a Ponzi scheme so I think I might be signing off on real women for a long time.

[theodoric]

Thank you for the good advice Theodoric.Our marriage isn't doing that good for the last two years since losing our high-end lifestyle to a Ponzi scheme so I think I might be signing off on real women for a long time.

I can understand THAT real easy . . Ponzi schemes have done in a LOT of people

be very careful then since things arent the best right now . . the doll might be just the excuse she needs

and I can understand the signing off on real women for a while . . . . I reached that point myself . . that's why I'm waiting till I have enough to get myself a nice doll . . that is going to be my companion

[Szalinski]

I'm married for the last 8 yrs to a nice/attractive MILF(10 yrs older than me).<snip>

Married for 8 years? I don't think she qualifies asa MILF any more. MIG2F, MICF maybe. But I think "Like" is moot by now.

[Speedflyer77]

be VERY careful . . those things you listed are all considered "normal" in most divorce courts

a life sized realistic doll might not be

you might want to ask a lawyer about any laws or precedents involving "sex toys" and what is or isnt considered "normal/acceptable" where you live

or you might get a very nasty surprise if your wife decides she is tired of your toys and she decides to file for divorce . . just because she says this now "BTW she says she's ok with it" . . . doesnt mean she is going to be ok with it after it arrives and she sees what her new competition looks like . . it may bother her WAY more than "a bit"

dont kid yourself . . women HATE competition . . of ANY sort . . and the more serious the competition . . (the better looking it is) . . the more they are going to hate it . . porn mags and vids . . even a fleshlight . . are very non-human in appearance . . even an inflatable doll doesnt look very realistic

one of the "high end" dolls like RD, 4woods, PIB, etc . . is a whole different matter . . . . you might find your wife has VERY serious problems with you doinking something that looks like a hot little thing in her 20's


I am not saying that "will" happen . . . . just be careful . . or you could find yourself on the receiving end of a very nasty divorce that hammers you into the ground

hmmm, found your post interesting
my wife took a job in another city (4.5hrs away by car) the beginning of the year, so I only see her 2-3 weekends a month now
So she's "OK" with me getting a doll.
It hasn't arrived yet, now I'm feeling a bit worried

[ManagerMister]

I have been married for decades, and my lovely wife has always had only about 1% as much interest in sex as I do (actually, a negative percentage!), which was extremely frustrating. In the early '90's I started working on an artificial solution to the problem, because divorcing my wife and pursuing another relationship was not an option, for moral reasons. But I did not have the kind of creativity needed to make it happen. Someone finally did (Matt McMullen) in 1996, but unfortunately it took about five years for me to become aware of it. (Five lost years, darn it!)

I have heard from a lot of people in the Doll Forum (Thank you for keeping it going!) but I haven't heard from many who have a situation like mine. Basically, I have gotten involved with dolls (very deeply, in the past 8 years) in order to free my marriage from the intense sexual pressure caused by the massive difference between my needs and hers, and to make the marriage successful. (Just to clarify, my needs are very normal, not excessive.) For the first time, during the last several years, there has been no pressure or conflict between us at all. This has been like finding a medication that completely cured a disease that seemed to be incurable. I really believe that what Matt started is, for people like me, nothing short of revolutionary. I want to tell people about it, but I dare not, except on this forum.

My dolls are truly my wife's best friends. However, the ironic thing is that if she were to find out about them, she would explode, and viciously attack the very thing that has enabled our marriage to work. (Figure that out!!)

Here is what I need to do to buy a doll: (1) Save for about two years by putting aside half of the spending money that I take out of the ATM, so it won't be detected by looking at the checking account or credit card statements. (I could easily pay for any doll instantly, but then there would be a charge that I would not be able to explain.) (2) When the time finally comes, go to the post office far away from home, and buy money orders. (3) Have them ship it "hold for pickup" at the shipping terminal. (4) Pick it up, take it to an unoccupied building, and transfer it to a much smaller box. (5) Bring it home camouflaged under a bunch of junk so it won't be seen. (6) Transfer it to a hiding place in the garage when I am home alone, and cover it with junk. (7) When she is out of town, transfer it to a special room that was constructed secretly, with entrances and exits that allow access without being observed. (Try doing that in your house! Believe me, it's harder than anything in "Mission Impossible.")

So, I guess my category is "Married with Dolls."

[gerrut1979]

your 'special room' screams for some pictures

[ManagerMister]

Actually I have two rooms, a larger one with limited headroom for dolls lying down, and a smaller one for my RD B10 F12, standing up. Here are two pictures, one of each room. Please pardon the unpainted floor and bare walls in the first picture; I really don't care because when I am spending time with the dolls, I only have a weak flickering LED candle going, which does not allow me to see much other than the doll's face. This very low-level light allows me to imagine that they are real people, which is key to the experience. (Don't worry, this "theater of the mind" is under my control, I am not Lars.)

The doll you see in the first picture is my COM flatback torso, which I ordered in 2005 and received in 2008 (!). There are also a couple of 1st-PC's around the corner, and there is room for one more. Some day I will fix up the room to look better, but the dolls themselves are higher priority than what the room looks like.

The doll in the second picture is the RD, of course. The space is so limited, I can't move backwards to take a wider-angle shot. I do have some more pictures of this beautiful doll (who I imagine is a Brazilian) that I took before hauling all 112 lbs. of her into this little closet. Two of the little LED lights (which cost only about $1 each and are sold at Walgreens) are on the shelf.

I have pictures of the other dolls, although as you can tell my photographic skills are about 180 degrees from Stacy's. But I suspect that this is not the right place to post them. Maybe someone could tell me where.

[janesays]

Hi ManagerMister,the place for photos and photoshoots vary anywhere from the open forum,in the forum that your doll is(IE:If you have a Realdoll you should post in the Abyss Creations forum) or what alot of folks do and that is to post them in the Eye Candy forum:
http://dollforum.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=11

BTW:I am "Married With Doll" but I'm no Al Bundy contrary to what the Mrs. says.LOL

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[nickygoat]

In monogamous relationship w/ Organic BF & we own a male doll!

[Walley]

Recently widowed. Lost my partner of 23 years.

[janesays]

Recently widowed. Lost my partner of 23 years.

I am sorry to hear that Walley. Welcome to the forums mate.