1st TPE male doll: One month in, NO regrets.
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My one and only Erik Kirk: WM 160cm, fair skin tone, #78 head.
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My one and only Erik Kirk: WM 160cm, fair skin tone, #78 head.
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Samantha - SY 165cm Elf
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Lance - WM Male #207 head
Larry - WM Male #207 head
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Re: 1st TPE male doll: One month in, NO regrets.
How is your husband adjusting to Erik, both to your getting it on with him and to his sleeping with you? I can imagine the latter might be an area of actual or perceived lost intimacy between you and one which many couples who sleep apart (see snoring & flopping) above can also relate to.
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Hi, Sekhmet. Yeah, I'm so happy that Erik's a part of my life now. Even though he's one of the lighter dolls, he can be heavy to lift. When I do lift him, I make sure it's a quick lift over a very short distance. Like lifting him from my bed to his wheelchair right beside the bed. He spends the majority of his time in my bed because I love snuggling with him each night before drifting off to sleep. Even though I was keen to get my own doll ASAP, I'm glad that having to save for him gave me more time to really consider what the best option would be.Sekhmet wrote:Wow, it's great to hear that you're enjoying having Erik in your life and that the weight isn't too much for you to handle. I guess there's a silver lining to having to take time saving up for a doll, you have more time to consider all the options and choose just the right doll for you.
My one and only Erik Kirk: WM 160cm, fair skin tone, #78 head.
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Aww, thanks from both of us, DG! That's really sweet of you. xxDG wrote:H a P p Y O n E m O n T h A n N i V e R s A r Y!
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Hi, Bluedog. Thanks for your kind wishes. Cuddling with Erik before going to sleep is just as important to me as the sexual aspect. Especially since I've slept in my bed alone for 10 years. My husband has a bit of resentment about the amount of money I spent on Erik. But I don't care: it was my money to spend how I chose. (We have separate bank accounts and that's the way I prefer it.) Normally, I leave my bedroom door open. My husband knows if my door is closed, I'm getting it on with Erik and don't want to be disturbed. It sucks that I have to stifle any sexual sounds of pleasure because this is a very small house: his room is only a couple of metres away from mine. I also have to deal with my cat who likes to hang out on my bed most of the day. I have no hesitation in kicking Puss out of my room if I'm in the mood for sex. But my cat will sometimes meow right outside the door, which can kill the mood. I've quickly learnt to put ear plugs in before banging my man. Problem solved!Bluedog wrote:Very happy to hear that things are going so well with you and your Erik. The sleeping / cuddling with the doll appears to be an activity as important if not more important to many doll owners than the actual sex. While I can understand that objectively, I can only imagine I’d be completely unable to appreciate such interaction as I prefer to sleep alone as I am now incapable of sleeping with snoring or flopping about or listening to nocturnal soliloquies (all of which I had no problems with when I was younger, probably due to my exhaustion from the sex which often immediately preceded such distractions.)
How is your husband adjusting to Erik, both to your getting it on with him and to his sleeping with you? I can imagine the latter might be an area of actual or perceived lost intimacy between you and one which many couples who sleep apart (see snoring & flopping) above can also relate to.
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I’ve gone off the deep end when she learns how much the doll costs. Not so different from any other hobby or luxury expense, just oh-so-much-more awkward for so many couples because the doll will serve a sexual or companionship function. But as long as you husband is supportive of your snuggling and shagging (even if he’d rather not hear your climax - and I can understand that would be difficult for him under the circumstances) I think you’re in pretty good shape. If the lack of sex & snuggles was a cause of tension between you over the past several years, perhaps Erik’s ability to provide you with these things will make it easier for you and your husband to connect in other ways / focus on other aspects of your marriage.
As for the cat, yeah, I get that. When I was single, I had a roommate who’s dog apparently fell in love with my girlfriend. We’d be going at it and he’d push his way into the room and eventually we’d realize (or not) that the door was open and he was sitting next to the bed watching us intently. Once we started to block the door shut, he’d just lay down on the floor in the hall next to the door until my girlfriend came out.
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I hear ya, Bluedog. I haven't made many expensive purchases in my life, but my doll was one thing I didn't mind paying for - especially given my unique circumstance. I saw my doll as an investment towards my happiness - and Erik has made me very happy, so I consider it money well spent. I've never let anyone tell me what I can spend my money on. Not even my husband. He saw me snuggling up to Erik in bed last night and didn't say anything about it. I think he can tell that I'm a lot happier since Erik arrived. And I do try to be considerate about keeping sexual sounds to a minimum since I know it's impossible for him to have sex any more. The lack of sex and snuggles over the past 10 years has just become normal. So it was never a source of tension between us, which is good. Oh, boy - having the roommate's dog watching you and your girlfriend get it on must have been fun. Maybe you should have offered him some popcorn to enjoy during the show.Bluedog wrote:Yeah, the money can be an issue. My doll will come out of my “fun” money but I am sure my wife will think
I’ve gone off the deep end when she learns how much the doll costs. Not so different from any other hobby or luxury expense, just oh-so-much-more awkward for so many couples because the doll will serve a sexual or companionship function. But as long as you husband is supportive of your snuggling and shagging (even if he’d rather not hear your climax - and I can understand that would be difficult for him under the circumstances) I think you’re in pretty good shape. If the lack of sex & snuggles was a cause of tension between you over the past several years, perhaps Erik’s ability to provide you with these things will make it easier for you and your husband to connect in other ways / focus on other aspects of your marriage.
As for the cat, yeah, I get that. When I was single, I had a roommate who’s dog apparently fell in love with my girlfriend. We’d be going at it and he’d push his way into the room and eventually we’d realize (or not) that the door was open and he was sitting next to the bed watching us intently. Once we started to block the door shut, he’d just lay down on the floor in the hall next to the door until my girlfriend came out.
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Hi, dollnerd895. Aww, thanks for being happy for me! I'm glad that your doll has made you very happy, too. When did she arrive?dollnerd895 wrote:Similar experience here with my first doll. Happy for you!
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Thanks! End of August so it's been a little over a month. Things seem to only be getting better!true_blue22 wrote:Hi, dollnerd895. Aww, thanks for being happy for me! I'm glad that your doll has made you very happy, too. When did she arrive?dollnerd895 wrote:Similar experience here with my first doll. Happy for you!