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Too much turbulence in the Marcus household already to be messing with getting a doll IMO.
I've been married to my one and only for 20 yrs. Have live in separate places for probably 7 yrs now. I visit her now and then and we don't have sex. I have a doll for that. All is well.
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Things are still the same here.
My wife still hates my Adora (Tanya).
I still have her (Adora) on her stand. She's beautifull. Her eyes, her body, her hair, her face.....
But it seems that my wife goes in to that room more often as I do and makes photos of Adora.
How else could she tell that Adora has her hands in a different position every day?
However, I've just changed Adoras clothes for the first time! That's something my wife will push/hold on me!
I'm going to let the discussion come to me....
Marcus
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Hi Marcus,MarcusM wrote:Hi all
Things are still the same here.
My wife still hates my Adora (Tanya).
I still have her (Adora) on her stand. She's beautifull. Her eyes, her body, her hair, her face.....
But it seems that my wife goes in to that room more often as I do and makes photos of Adora.
How else could she tell that Adora has her hands in a different position every day?
However, I've just changed Adoras clothes for the first time! That's something my wife will push/hold on me!
I'm going to let the discussion come to me....
Marcus
It must be hell for you, having Adora at your fingertips and so close.
I was wondering whether you manage to get time alone with Adora? Does your wife ever go out to visit girlfriends or shopping without you, etc.?
I hope things work out better for you!
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Hi Marcus,MarcusM wrote:Hi all
Things are still the same here.
My wife still hates my Adora (Tanya).
I still have her (Adora) on her stand. She's beautifull. Her eyes, her body, her hair, her face.....
But it seems that my wife goes in to that room more often as I do and makes photos of Adora.
How else could she tell that Adora has her hands in a different position every day?
However, I've just changed Adoras clothes for the first time! That's something my wife will push/hold on me!
I'm going to let the discussion come to me....
Marcus
I do not understand 1 thing......... She hates Adora but why does she so often go to her and then take pictures of her ???
I try to move in your wife's thoughts, but I do not know what to think about this now. I realy don't now what to think of you wife........ It seems that she herself does not know what she is doing with this situation.
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I can't say I envy your position and also echo what others have said re the long term. I don't see a positive outcome, but you have all my blessings and wishes for a good resolution.
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Yeah, I'd be out the door. Guess I never was the marrying kind.
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Just to clarify some things:
- It seems that my wife makes photos of Adora nearly every day to check if her position has changed. That - to her - means that I've "used" Adora.
- I do have some rare moments with Adora, mainly in the morning.
- In between I can hug Adora whenever I go in that room (really nice)
- My wife has no friends to go out with. She's always here. No shopping (she hates shopping), no evenings out or what so ever.
Yes, that's what it's about right now...FutureIsRobots wrote:"Oh sure, you can *have* the doll... but you better not ever, ever, EVER touch her!"(...)
Right now my wife is not talking to me, as she's seen the new clothes on Adora (again: meaning I've used Adora).
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I understand your point quite well.devion wrote:No offense meant and I don't want to be a downer... but... If it is true what you tell here... do you really think it is healthy what you do? There seems to be some serious relationship issues between you and your wife. I think you two need to have a long and honest talk and maybe consider some counsiling. She is obviously not happy with you having a doll, but you still seem to hang on to the idea keeping the doll at any price. She secretly takes photos to check if you "used" Adora? That sounds crazy. Do you guys don't talk about these things or your feelings? And what is the doll worth to you? Why do you want one? Is it more important than your relationship with your wife? Are you even happy in your relationship? I don't have answers, but I'm concerned that this won't end well. Adora is "just" a doll and your wife a human being. It is not fair to yourself and your wife to keep this hide and seek going... You need to solve these issues together and in all honesty.
However, considering my wife refuses to talk about things (ok, let's say it: about my need for sex), it's rather difficult.
I know quite well that this situation cannot last forever. But currently I have no option but to wait and see...
Marcus
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It looks like Adora is lost, alone, upset, waiting for some love and affection!MarcusM wrote:That's how Adora looks like now:
Why not brush her hair and give her a hug and a big kiss.
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Oh, I sure did!djcdoll wrote: It looks like Adora is lost, alone, upset, waiting for some love and affection!
Why not brush her hair and give her a hug and a big kiss.
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I hope your wife brings something positive to the table that I'm not seeing here, because -and this is just me- I wouldn't be long in a situation like that. I know what it's like having to walk on eggshells around a family member from when I was a kid, and NEVER AGAIN.MarcusM wrote:
Right now my wife is not talking to me, as she's seen the new clothes on Adora (again: meaning I've used Adora).
Marcus
If things seem to be coming to a head, I still recommend at the very least a durable, secure storage case for your Adora -- for her protection.
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