rubherkitty wrote:Tosin007 wrote:rubherkitty wrote:Tosin007 wrote:rubherkitty wrote:Tosin007 wrote:
RK said:
It's complicated.
She's a good woman, but our lives and living arrangement has not worked out.
She's got a lot of health problems and I haven't been to a doctor is 32 yrs.
She lives in the city w/ her dad as she can't do a thing. I live a very rustic life in the country where my business is. So, I very rarely even see her and basically live a married, but celibate life.
Oh wow thats interesting a good Woman too eh? Didn't know their where still some of those left!
Sorry anyway to hear about your situation. I hope that things maybe can improve for you guys in the coming years?
Is that maybe why u got a RD though? For Me I prefer Sinthetics or RD though,
which do u think is better? I think Sinthetics are the most attractive IMO & look the most like
Real Women its unbelievable!
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RK:
Yes, she was a hard worker, lover and friend until her health finally took her down. She will probably never be healthy again as she's been fighting it for 6 yrs or so and only getting worse.
We've been married for over 17 yrs and you don't divorce someone because they develop problems.
So, she doesn't care if I play w/ dolls. In my case a couple of mannequins. Not sure why you thought I had a RD? I cannot afford a solid doll w/ the bills and debt I have. I should spend more time w/ the biz vs hanging out here, but this is about my only fun.
Oh wow your lucky! Sounds like u have most of your life already sorted out.
So do u have any Kids yet with her? I think I would love to be in your position.
(I'm not ruling Out Marriage) Although I think if I had kids & wanted to play with Dolls
then they might see that as a bit weird/ odd.
I would however love to meet a Girl that might be ok with me having a Doll
& not see me as some deranged Psycho. For now though I'm single & totally ok with it lol.
Women are expensive & frankly even living on my own can prove
difficult at times.
No kids. I didn't get married until I was 36 and already had a bunch of nieces and nephews so...
There is only one nephew to carry on the family name and he's a idiot so maybe I should have tried for a son. I'd marry and breed a cute young thing now if things were different. I've lived a starving artist lifestyle so not a real stable life for kids like a 9-5 job, little suburban house w/a white picket fence would be.
Wow 36! Yikes that's late. Thats like my now getting married for at least another 10 years. (Possible/ doable but we'll see).
Would u say u maybe regret having No Kids or no? I think u could still maybe have them if u want.
Either find a Surrogate Mother. (If thats ok with your wife).
or Donate ur Sperm to a Sperm Bank to let ur genes live on that way! (I'm considering probably one of these 2 options).
I just don't trust Women with my Money/ Assets. I don't want to get into a Divorce or have Alimony/ Child Support
Payments to make, (I think the Modern Days marriage laws are total bs & don't favor Men at all).
But hey at least you've got your Dolls right? Do u at least have any pets though?
I would have liked to have had kids, but I knew better financially and responsibility wise. It was a wise choice due to the way things worked out. A surrogate mother? My wife would kill me. She would have loved to have had kids, but see above. She also already had some health problems that would have made child bearing dangerous for her. So we have a bunch of orphan cats we take care of. I have two at my farm/ business location too. Will eventually get some guard dogs when my location is all fenced in.
As far as women, you just have to find one that is willing to work w/ you to build a good life. Just have to watch the way she treats other people in deals, etc. If she likes to cheat, scam them, take advantage, etc you better believe she will do the same to you if it does go to divorce.[/quote]
Yeah I agree with you! I think Responsibility/ Financially is a big hindrance to me having kids as well. Lifes just alot easier
without them. (Especially for a Man anyways). & lol oh ya ur right that is true. I guess getting a Surrogate Mother is a little bit
insensitive as well as selfish. (I dunno why I even suggested it tbh). However it is an option maybe for a single guy like me.
(Deliberately single actually). Their are girls I literally ignore, just because I don't want to have the responsibility
of paying for them or providing or w/e. (The typical roles expected of Men). I'm still attracted to these Women sure,
but I don't want to marry anyone ever I'm thinking. (Who knows if I change my mind or not in a few years but we'll see).
Women are just so expensive I think & they always want more stuff. I guess u lucked out u seem to have a good wife!
Maybe I should just marry someone with disabilities. It'd make their family happy & she probably wouldn't leave me anyways
or demand that much from me. (Which is what I hate the most about most Women tbh). I've considered this as well YOLO.
(It makes me out to be a very good Man too then so my image/ social validation from other's will probably skyrocket after that).
Of course attraction is still somewhat important I think. & then theirs also the whole. (Marrying older Women/ Cougar thing). Thats
another option for me on the table. Oh & wow thats nice that u have Pets as well! So are they well trained? Hopefully
they aren't peeing or leaving feces on ur Doll's when u leave the house? jk jk xD.
& yeah I guess ur right about Women. Oh well theirs always Dolls & Porn, (& of course I can just get a Dog for companionship).
But ya the whole Women being expensive thing is one of the biggest turn offs I have with Marriage. & alot of Men these days
are getting screwed over by their ex Wives so I just don't really see much of a point in it. I value my freedom a bit too much.