Male Dolls in a Real Marriage
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Women would probably more accepting of getting it on with another female. as for fantasies with two men, I'll let the ladies answer that one.
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The appeal of a female doll for my husband is good for me because I get sick easily, especially with inner ear infections lately. And some days, to put it bluntly, I feel like shit. If I don't "feel" even a modest amount of sexy, I'm not getting in the mood. He has a small outlet with sex toys, and he'll have even more of that outlet when we get a doll. I won't feel so bad about my bad days denying him some fun.
The appeal of a male doll for myself is good for my husband because he works alot, sometimes even overseas. If he's home, he's tired. He also wakes up at random hours and quite frankly I would rather he have sex with a doll than even entertain the thought he can have sex with me while I'm sleeping. Not my turn on.
That, and I look forward to the added fun factors too, of course!
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I know that I can't realistically meet each and every one of my husband's sexual expectations 100% of the time. I know that it's unfair and impossible to put pressure on him to do the same for me with the responsibilities he has on his plate. That, and I'll have fun dressing up his torso from time to time, just to let him know that even though I'm not feeling well all the time, I still care.
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All I can say is....WOW! I think you two are on a path that will avoid a ton of land mines that me and my wife have stepped on (and are learning to avoid now). It's one thing to understand his needs. It's another thing to be cool with him having a doll to assist in meeting those needs when you can't. It's a TOTALLY OTHER THING to dress up the doll and have it waiting for him!!!yellowsubmarine wrote:I know that I can't realistically meet each and every one of my husband's sexual expectations 100% of the time. I know that it's unfair and impossible to put pressure on him to do the same for me with the responsibilities he has on his plate. That, and I'll have fun dressing up his torso from time to time, just to let him know that even though I'm not feeling well all the time, I still care.
Have you all been using the doll for a while or is this a new introduction? My wife reluctantly accepts the presence of my doll (ironically also a torso), but there is apprehension as she sees it more as evidence of her failure rather than a tool to ease the pressure. Would love to hear how the dynamics work in your situation (without barging in to personally).
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I think more couples should think like that, I also believe that women need to more accepting of a man's needs and vice versa! No arguing or seeing the other as only a "sex machine"
Or a "butler"/etc"....!!
A relationship and/or marriage is about being treated equally and commitment and give and take/comprise and above all partnership!!
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It kind of drives my husband nuts; we're both like characters from that old Aesop's fable - he's like the grasshopper, optimistic to a fault and ignoring little problems until it's too late and happy enough in any situation, and I'm like the ant, I hope for the best and prepare for the worst, and feel that we can't be happy unless we make pains to be.
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I have one MRD2 and I am making payments on a custom one!
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Shadowcat, the reason we're getting torsos instead of dolls is pretty simple: we live in a third floor apartment. I wouldn't want to lug one full size doll down those steps in a crate, let alone two up the stairs in crates. Not to mention we can store two torsos in a small apartment in the space of one doll.
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Understood. The crates are insanely heavy. The living space of my condo is above my garage so there is one set of stairs. We had to uncrate my doll in the garage and carry him up the stairs because the crate was too heavy/too large.yellowsubmarine wrote:Shadowcat, the reason we're getting torsos instead of dolls is pretty simple: we live in a third floor apartment. I wouldn't want to lug one full size doll down those steps in a crate, let alone two up the stairs in crates. Not to mention we can store two torsos in a small apartment in the space of one doll.
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