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From what I've gleaned from the variety of porn out there, many men are into or would least accept a threesome with two women. However dual male threesomes would be pretty much limited to those men who have some homo or bi-sexual cravings. Heteros would be pretty much "ewwww" when it comes to sharing the bed, even when ther is a woman involved (gang rape fantasies aside).

Women would probably more accepting of getting it on with another female. as for fantasies with two men, I'll let the ladies answer that one.
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Agreed. I think some men would be interested in seeing their woman pleasures by another, but the big blocking factors are (1) the ewwww factor of another dude, and (2) the "what the ?!@! Are you doing with my woman factor. A male doll should dodge both of those factors. I guess the last factor would be (3) the woman thinking "do what with a doll".
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As a woman, I find it appealing to down the road have a doll each for my husband and I.

The appeal of a female doll for my husband is good for me because I get sick easily, especially with inner ear infections lately. And some days, to put it bluntly, I feel like shit. If I don't "feel" even a modest amount of sexy, I'm not getting in the mood. He has a small outlet with sex toys, and he'll have even more of that outlet when we get a doll. I won't feel so bad about my bad days denying him some fun.

The appeal of a male doll for myself is good for my husband because he works alot, sometimes even overseas. If he's home, he's tired. He also wakes up at random hours and quite frankly I would rather he have sex with a doll than even entertain the thought he can have sex with me while I'm sleeping. Not my turn on.

That, and I look forward to the added fun factors too, of course!

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Hmmm .........

Interesting! :)

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yellowsubmarine I'm impressed how you and your husband are both open to incorporating dolls into your love play. Wanting your mate to be happy and satisfied even when you aren't up to participating shows a high degree of compassion and love imho. Cheers :thumbs_up:
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I agree completely papa bear. Yellow submarine gets the "tdf lady of the day" award. (You're the first to get it ya know)
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Thank you, but I just feel it's practical.

I know that I can't realistically meet each and every one of my husband's sexual expectations 100% of the time. I know that it's unfair and impossible to put pressure on him to do the same for me with the responsibilities he has on his plate. That, and I'll have fun dressing up his torso from time to time, just to let him know that even though I'm not feeling well all the time, I still care.

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yellowsubmarine wrote:I know that I can't realistically meet each and every one of my husband's sexual expectations 100% of the time. I know that it's unfair and impossible to put pressure on him to do the same for me with the responsibilities he has on his plate. That, and I'll have fun dressing up his torso from time to time, just to let him know that even though I'm not feeling well all the time, I still care.
All I can say is....WOW! I think you two are on a path that will avoid a ton of land mines that me and my wife have stepped on (and are learning to avoid now). It's one thing to understand his needs. It's another thing to be cool with him having a doll to assist in meeting those needs when you can't. It's a TOTALLY OTHER THING to dress up the doll and have it waiting for him!!!

Have you all been using the doll for a while or is this a new introduction? My wife reluctantly accepts the presence of my doll (ironically also a torso), but there is apprehension as she sees it more as evidence of her failure rather than a tool to ease the pressure. Would love to hear how the dynamics work in your situation (without barging in to personally).
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I agree while heartedly with you yellowsubmarine !! ^,..,^

I think more couples should think like that, I also believe that women need to more accepting of a man's needs and vice versa! No arguing or seeing the other as only a "sex machine"
Or a "butler"/etc"....!!

A relationship and/or marriage is about being treated equally and commitment and give and take/comprise and above all partnership!!


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We don't have a single doll yet. I have seen a problem that will eventually develop due to my yoyo-ing health, and I searched for a solution until I came across Realdolls. I suggested my idea and why to my husband. He hasn't argued my logic yet. So, since he got a new job, we're putting some money aside for us both. Until then, we do have toys to our disposal, I just feel something a little closer to human and more permanent for both of us is in order, without the complications another "real" person could bring to our relationship.

It kind of drives my husband nuts; we're both like characters from that old Aesop's fable - he's like the grasshopper, optimistic to a fault and ignoring little problems until it's too late and happy enough in any situation, and I'm like the ant, I hope for the best and prepare for the worst, and feel that we can't be happy unless we make pains to be.

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Ohhh I see! :)

I have one MRD2 and I am making payments on a custom one! :)

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I'd love to hear how it turns out yellowsubmarine. I'd be okay with my guy having a doll-especially to take the sexual pressure off me. I would probably have fun dressing up and buying things for a full (female) doll, but not a torso (no offense, I don't like them- might be because to me it really makes a woman's body an "object" vs. a full doll that is more like a "person"). He would definitely have to treat the dolls with respect, no just tossing them on the floor or something (I mean the full size, high end dolls).

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Due to this being a love doll forum I am usually focused on all things love doll. Unfortunately due to my tunnel vision I sometimes overlook being a gentleman. yellowsubmarine I just wanted to say I am sorry to hear you are suffering through health issues. I wish you the best and hope you are able to overcome your challenges.
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It's okay, Papa Bear, I'm just one of those people who catch everything under the sun and doesn't handle outside well. I've been this way my entire life, I even had chicken pox twice. You should see what happened to me the year my son started school, seeing as I was the one picking him up.

Shadowcat, the reason we're getting torsos instead of dolls is pretty simple: we live in a third floor apartment. I wouldn't want to lug one full size doll down those steps in a crate, let alone two up the stairs in crates. Not to mention we can store two torsos in a small apartment in the space of one doll.

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yellowsubmarine wrote:Shadowcat, the reason we're getting torsos instead of dolls is pretty simple: we live in a third floor apartment. I wouldn't want to lug one full size doll down those steps in a crate, let alone two up the stairs in crates. Not to mention we can store two torsos in a small apartment in the space of one doll.
Understood. The crates are insanely heavy. The living space of my condo is above my garage so there is one set of stairs. We had to uncrate my doll in the garage and carry him up the stairs because the crate was too heavy/too large.
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