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I can’t express my appreciation enough for the members of TDF. This is the only forum I’ve been a part of where all the members are so accepting and supportive. All other forums on other subjects always have nasty, hateful posters that make the experience one of trepidation. Because this does not exist on TDF, members are able to open themselves to the benefit of all the other members. I hope that this continues on into the future and that it is not attacked by outsiders that only want to criticize those that have an interest in the subjects on this forum. The moderators must be doing a fantastic job.

There seem to be three areas of interest for doll owners: photography, companionship, and sex, where they are often not exclusive. My interest was solely for the latter and the discovery of dolls literally saved my marriage and maybe more. TDF had a huge influence in developing this interest.

The topic of sexual satisfaction is not broached often and I can certainly understand the privacy issues. The general public tends to want to humiliate those that take this step, but I hope that over time, dolls can be viewed as positive contributors to well being.

My situation arose because my wife of several decades was not able to have intercourse for medical reasons that developed over 10 years ago. She took the unfortunate stance that if a happy ending was not possible, that any intimacy that could develop into that passion must be eliminated. Thus we basically lived like brother and sister for the last decade, where she would freeze into a statue if I even tried to give her a hug. Since I consider myself to have a higher sex drive than average, this was extremely frustrating. It felt like a tiger was clawing at me from inside that needed to be released. If not for porn, suicide might not have seemed so bad compared to never having intimacy or sex ever again. Cheating or paying for the service was not a moral option (and I’m an atheist), so there were several times that divorce was considered, although we enjoy each other in every other way. But the prospect of hurting her so severely for a selfish fulfillment was not tolerable. However, the only person that I could morally have sex with was the one person I was banished from.

Somehow I discovered this world of sex dolls (memories of the movie Cherry 2000 that instilled this fantasy long ago) just as my frustration was reaching the breaking point and fortunately the TDF was part of that discovery. I had an open discussion with my wife suggesting that the doll could fulfill the climax portion of love making while she and I could enjoy each other intimately for all the other aspects. Her reaction was “why didn’t we think of this years ago”. So without the pressure of having to provide intercourse during a love making session, we were able to resume intimacy immediately, not only in the bedroom, but in all other aspects of our being together. It was like falling in love again, having mates that we could both be happy with. We cuddle more, laugh more, smile more and now look forward to going to bed together, even if just to hold each other. I can give her hugs and kisses throughout the day and enjoy giving her compliments. I enjoy seeing her smile first thing in the morning after she’s been pleasured the night before. Our discussions on all topics are now completely undisclosed. We spend more time doing things together, joyfully, rather than my waiting for her to leave so that I can have time to relieve sexual pressure without making her feel uncomfortable.

The doll experience was educational. After years of noticing which body types turned me on the most via porn, I had finally been able to put all that education into making it a reality. I’d always been attracted more to the girl next door type, rather than a Jessica Rabbit (Roger Rabbit movie) body style. TDF comments had me leaning towards a WM doll for beauty, quality, and price. I ordered a WM168A in tan for her height, weight, labia, and athletic physique (I don’t know why there’s not more discussion on this marvelous combination; I can look in her eyes during the heat of the moment, be at the right height while standing, and only 62.4 pounds measured weight with standing feet and head); she was the one that I kept coming back to to admire in the vendor photos. The claimed height is actually to the top of the head when the doll is on her tip toes (not standing flat). I chose to order from RLSD on 5/16/18 due to their website ease-of-use and the offering of a free additional head. Then the torturous wait began; the anticipation was all consuming. It actually arrived rather quickly on 6/11, considering these are custom made and shipped from China. The vendor had requested that I report any problems within 48 hours and I informed them of my minor observations. I was instructed to wrap it back up and store it in the shipping box until I heard further from the manufacturer (which was never). This was like making a dream date, waiting a month for it to happen and then declining the invitation to enter her door at the end of the evening. I informed them that the problems were too minor to consider shipping it back and they gave me the OK to enjoy my new purchase. Whew! I am not disappointed at all with the physique and quality of this doll and I’m glad I took the TDF advice to buy from an approved vendor and manufacturer; I know there’s probably a big markup (as implied by the packing slip valuation), but I did not want the risk of having a nightmare to deal with.

Not having RG sex in so long, I didn’t know if I’d have immediate satisfaction or be so far removed from that form of sex that I’d be out of touch with. I had always wondered about ED commercials as I never had any problem in that department. For over 50 years I would get hard several times a day at the mere sight of a picture or actual beautiful woman. Masturbating more than once a day for a lifetime was no problem. So imagine my surprise when I would go limp when trying to enjoy my new toy. Did I just run into the most ill timed luck to develop ED just as the opportunity for unlimited, anytime sex was available?

For those that suffer buyers remorse in this same department, I share my experience and urge those to not give up too soon as the rewards are definitely worth it. My biggest hurdle was to eliminate from my mind that I was interfacing with a large piece of rubber. There can be a huge psychological barrier to master. I’d imagine being with a past lover, or have the computer on with some porn to imagine being in that scene, but I’d still not stay hard long enough. I tried various positions, even standing, but all with the same misfortune. I’ve never been good at quickies and 45 minutes is a typical happy ending duration, so I also discovered that I was not in shape for this activity. For the first several days my abs felt like I’d been in a boxing ring with a champ. Then my lower back began failing. I’d realized that I’d just purchased a gym machine and that I’d need to keep regular with these workouts if I were to succeed. It was sort of like buying an expensive bicycle with expectations of ability, however you still have to get your body in shape to get to the top of the mountain. So many times it felt like climax was just a few seconds away and then it would disappear, often due to my lack of being in shape to allow me to sustain the effort. Some sessions took hours where I was fiercely sweating, only to end in frustration, but definitely with moments of joy along the way. Obviously I was too desperate and forcing an end to scaling this frustrating wall.

Finally after two weeks, I scaled the wall. It was like a rebirth. I emerged from my room, kissed my wife, and went for a bike ride. The world around me seemed soft and inviting. Colors were more vivid. Background sounds more noticeable. Small creatures were my friends. Life was wonderful on another scale. Tiger tamed.

For me, it took going back to basics. I excited myself with my regular porn to the point where it would be too frustrating to quit. Then participated with the doll, imagining the scenes that I had just indulged in. I enjoyed being close and in my new friend for about 15 minutes afterwards. Femdoms are the way to go, but need just the right amount of lube; too little and the friction can irritate, you’ll feel every wrinkle, and you can eventually push it all the way inside; too little and much sensitivity disappears; a spray bottle of water and a tube of lube must be kept at hand to regulate the viscosity. Also, long hair is beautiful, but quickly become a tangled mess in bed; short hair wigs work much better. So far the doll has not deteriorated in any fashion; I am careful to not bend the fingers and keep her legs together when not in use; hopefully the femdom will keep wear to a minimum on the vagina. Thank goodness for TDF being the user’s manual that the manufacturers never include.

I am so grateful that the doll industry has evolved to where it is today. I can’t imagine why anyone would want to object to people achieving satisfaction via a bodily function that has evolved within us. If more people could have the joy that doll aficionados do, there would be a lot less hate in the world.

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Welcome Cherry Lover, thanks for sharing your story. Have a look at our new member page...

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Nice post! And welcome aboard!

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Love your story, thanks for sharing!
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I'm a bit disappointed to report in that I already have a 15mm tear in the upper outside vagina after only 3 weeks of use. I've been careful to keep the legs together most of the time and even during sex the legs are together. I have the TPE repair kit, so I'll study TDF for best advice and hope I can prevent this from tearing farther.

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Do NOT be in a hurry to do any repair. Especially if you're thinking of using the "glue". That glue is really a solvent that in certain situations can melt TPE back together. HOWEVER, in other situations such as a vaginal tear in a stress area, the solvent will make the tear MUCH worse. Please learn as much as possible before trying any type of TPE repair.
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I've studied the Mishka1965 TPE repair video and ordered a heat gun. My concern is that the clitoral hood that is now completely part of the built in vaginal opening is 7 mm thick and that the heat gun might only melt the top few millimeters and immediately rip open again on first use. I also have to figure out how during the melting process to NOT melt together the vaginal opening that is supposed to remain a hole. If anyone has a link to repairing the upper opening of a vagina, I'd appreciate the link.

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Try to get your 5 post in so you can add pictures of what exactly is the damage.
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I've also ordered a TPE test piece and I've been reading many posts. Indigo20 seems to have a lot of knowledge and hopefully I'll find some good solutions with his posts.

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Hi!

And welcome!

And join the club of enthusiasts for dolls which keep some aspect of our wildness tamed.

To be perfectly honest sessions as long and as rough as what you describe to be necessary will cause a doll not to last long.

Silicone with protruding and replaceable inserts might be the way to go. A DS 160 plus or 158, 4 Woods or even Realdoll.

That's the first time I've ever recommended RD!

However, climax as one ages does get longer and less predictable. So it's not just a matter of being fit.

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I've used a female condom every time to reduce friction on the doll. Even though all my life I've been a 45 to 60 minute session man, this last time I wound myself up with porn first and only used her for a few minutes and then discovered the damage. Simple missionary with legs closed is considered rough? I can't easily control the final thrusting forces. I'm disappointed that a sex doll can only be expected to last a few weeks unless you only use them for quickies. I doubt my wife would be accommodating of me spending more on another and much more expensive doll, so I've got to find a way to make this one serviceable again.

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Um. I'm hoping others can give you good news.

Whenever I say that TPE dolls are more as consumables etc etc etc I get lambasted by other people so don't say it too often but your experience is a case in point and silicone dolls have their place in the market and a solid reputation.

When a silicone doll needs repair successful repairs are often better and easier.

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I had taken a picture when the doll was new, with the legs about 40 degrees apart from one another:
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and now the area looks like this:
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and looking towards the inside:
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So the thickness of the tear is fairly thick (about 7 mm) while about 15 mm from the opening towards the naval. Not an area that I would want to be non-pliable due to a hardened adhesive. Possibly just doing a repair that would prevent further tearing would be adequate, without needing to restore it back to it's original visual.

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is available from The-Doll-House
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Here's Coverdoll Yolanda
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Reviews for:
-DS-OR-JY-SY-Jarliet-Vivid-SM-SE-ZOne-JM-Sino-Sanhui-Pipedream--XY-WM-Elsa Babe-SM Silicone Siliko-XYcolo-Starpery-Elsa Babe-FutureDoll-Zelex-Irontech-FJ Doll
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