Not Another Survey!
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Stop dating... get judged.
Date multiple women.. get judged.
Date one but don't marry... get judged.
Get married... get destroyed.
Get a doll... let them all eat their own judgement.
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That's correct. That's all I'll say for now. Thank you for taking the time to participate!SuperNothing wrote:I'm in process of taking surveys. One down, two to go. I was concerned by one of the last entries that assigned the act of rape when a party could not give their consent. As it has been the accusation of some SJW's in the past that a IPA is incapable of giving consent and therefore it is and act of rape. I just wanted to ask you to please confirm that you are not identifying an IPA as a "party" in this instance.
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They are indeed all different. They are set up similar in the beginning because not everyone will take each survey. Please give me time to gather the results before you jump to conclusions. It's not what you think. Thanks for taking the surveys!gunsmithcat wrote:This survey is fucked up. Took the first, second was the same. Not even interested anymore. It kinda make it looks like people buy dolls to get their fantasy rape fulfilled.
That is very fucked up. I'm starting to understand now how people can see having a doll as a bad thing. I like mine because they are very beautiful. A piece of art... I'm a figure collector.
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Thanks R.K.!RainKing wrote:But that is the purpose to get an accurate response, and data to disprove that superstition.gunsmithcat wrote:This survey is fucked up. Took the first, second was the same. Not even interested anymore. It kinda make it looks like people buy dolls to get their fantasy rape fulfilled.
That is very fucked up. I'm starting to understand now how people can see having a doll as a bad thing. I like mine because they are very beautiful. A piece of art... I'm a figure collector.
This is why they say those kinds of things because there IS NOT much data like this.
I found the questions to be seriously thought provoking to me. Just answer honestly.
you may learn something about yourself
BTW Gunn, Lovely Avatar there
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how are you going to keep all the negative troll data out? Kinda seems the more the links are shared the more it *may* attract the very people (anti-doll crowd) you don't want it to.
Just my .02
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It is very good to ask the harsh questions to just show the world through raw data that, "no, men are NOT becoming crazy rapists due to dolls", lol, even suggesting that is at the level of viewing having sex with dolls like having sex with corpses when it is clearly not the same thing. But how will one know when they have never been around a doll that they find "hot"?
On a personal note, I also want to point out that the purpose of a sexual fantasy is not necessarily to fulfill it but to get sexually aroused by it which increases your sexual pleasure during sexual activities which increases your likelihood to get a powerful orgasm which increases your chances to be sexually satisfied afterwards.
Furthermore, many sexual fantasies are symbolic: "rape" can be a symbol of feeling in control or being dominant in the bedroom. Then there would be other ways you could actually be this in the bedroom without having to be "domineering" or what would definitively constitute as "rape". Just leading a woman during sex instead of asking for permission for everything ("do you want to do doggystyle?", "do you want to perform oral sex on me, pleaaase?"). She will let you know when you are going too far by just giving you resistance and then you of course respect that and stop at whatever you were doing or were trying to do. It doesn't have to be any harder than this.
The book Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden, you can read tons of women's sexual fantasies that involve different ways of being dominated, of "surrendering to powerful men" and this could be symbolically represented in many ways: a powerful man who she surrenders to could be "powerful" as in high social status, or "powerful" as in big and strong physically or "powerful" as being able to use his penis in amazing ways. So, be nuanced here and use context! Don't let the trolls trigger you with "power words".
So, don't let yourself lose control just because someone throws out that word out of the blue without context. Be nuanced about it and use context and symbolic representation while of course showing the obvious, "WTF, are you dumb AF? It has nothing to do with that! Let me elaborate."
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Thank you so much for taking time to do this. It's kind of the nature of the beast to have some people not take the surveys seriously. I'm limiting my sharing to just the forums. I felt that I've come to know the type of people here and on the other forums to feel trustworthy about who I'm dealing with. If necessary I can remove outliers to adjust for such antics.skinnygamer wrote:Took all the surveys, just curious:
how are you going to keep all the negative troll data out? Kinda seems the more the links are shared the more it *may* attract the very people (anti-doll crowd) you don't want it to.
Just my .02
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Thank you so much! I appreciate your insight. And without getting into too much details- I'm not aware of the book but I am aware of the women who have rape fantasies. This is something I plan on using as a defense and counter point in discussions.curiousswede wrote:Alright! I did the 3 surveys.
It is very good to ask the harsh questions to just show the world through raw data that, "no, men are NOT becoming crazy rapists due to dolls", lol, even suggesting that is at the level of viewing having sex with dolls like having sex with corpses when it is clearly not the same thing. But how will one know when they have never been around a doll that they find "hot"?
On a personal note, I also want to point out that the purpose of a sexual fantasy is not necessarily to fulfill it but to get sexually aroused by it which increases your sexual pleasure during sexual activities which increases your likelihood to get a powerful orgasm which increases your chances to be sexually satisfied afterwards.
Furthermore, many sexual fantasies are symbolic: "rape" can be a symbol of feeling in control or being dominant in the bedroom. Then there would be other ways you could actually be this in the bedroom without having to be "domineering" or what would definitively constitute as "rape". Just leading a woman during sex instead of asking for permission for everything ("do you want to do doggystyle?", "do you want to perform oral sex on me, pleaaase?"). She will let you know when you are going too far by just giving you resistance and then you of course respect that and stop at whatever you were doing or were trying to do. It doesn't have to be any harder than this.
The book Nancy Friday - My Secret Garden, you can read tons of women's sexual fantasies that involve different ways of being dominated, of "surrendering to powerful men" and this could be symbolically represented in many ways: a powerful man who she surrenders to could be "powerful" as in high social status, or "powerful" as in big and strong physically or "powerful" as being able to use his penis in amazing ways. So, be nuanced here and use context! Don't let the trolls trigger you with "power words".
So, don't let yourself lose control just because someone throws out that word out of the blue without context. Be nuanced about it and use context and symbolic representation while of course showing the obvious, "WTF, are you dumb AF? It has nothing to do with that! Let me elaborate."
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I would say is rather interesting from the point of view where people who intent to interview the people who owned sex dolls, knowingly the fantasy scenario which most cases understandable because some people may have faced trauma from real life/depression.
End up buying a doll for companion or whatsoever reasons, while the depressions still carry on eventually grow stronger which I believe that's where fetish/fantasy comes in.
Again that's just what I see so far from real life.
I am glad I did the survey btw.
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Thank you for participating in the surveys! I know what you mean. I won't say too much about itterryspc005 wrote:I've took all the surveys,
I would say is rather interesting from the point of view where people who intent to interview the people who owned sex dolls, knowingly the fantasy scenario which most cases understandable because some people may have faced trauma from real life/depression.
End up buying a doll for companion or whatsoever reasons, while the depressions still carry on eventually grow stronger which I believe that's where fetish/fantasy comes in.
Again that's just what I see so far from real life.
I am glad I did the survey btw.
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I had no doubt that I could rely on and trust TDF members and visitors with my research objectives. Thank you everyone for participating in the surveys! I still need more participants. As of right now this thread has had 354 views, about 12% of those visitors participated in the surveys. If all those visitors participated in the surveys that would have exceeded my expectations. Let's keep up the good work! If you have yet to do the surveys please take the time to do so. You'll be happy you didMonAmour wrote:
Survey I: Freedom of expression I
https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/2K6HQN6
Survey II: Freedom of expression II
https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/2KZ2HJL
Survey III: Happiness
https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/2KZS2MS
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Excellent! Thank you so much!Chuck Norris wrote:Hi Don,Its done
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No problem my friend. Just helping out the community. And bumping the thread at the same time I guessMonAmour wrote:Excellent! Thank you so much!Chuck Norris wrote: