New to the Forum and sex dolls
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New to the Forum and sex dolls
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Re: New to the Forum and sex dolls
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It is not at all strange or unusual, life is one and only and passes quickly,
man is a being of feats and progress and everyone deserves love and attention,
the time of unknown futurism, informatics, robotics, cybernetics is coming,
nothing like that is at all unusual, even when the situation is much more complicated...
Re: New to the Forum and sex dolls
Not silly but do take your time, research and ask as you don’t want to settle or impulse buy and then have second thoughts.
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Re: New to the Forum and sex dolls
Depends on your expectations, limitations and abilities. Dolls are a fair amount of work to maintain, they're heavy and the sex is all on you, They don't help much. So, do some research. give it some thought then some more thought and go from there.
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most of us here are above 50-60yo
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1980 Inflatable
2016 Plush Doll
2020 Irontech Torso Mira
2022
Starpery TPE 172F Wayne Winstead and Rozanne, Starpery Silicone Nathalia 165D
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Loneliness pushes us to date or want a companion, no matter how old we are. Dolls do not entirely fill that function, but they go a long way towards it, without all the drama and downsides of dating. Pricey, yes, but far less than a woman would be. Or repeated visits to a pro (which many women these days actually are, even without the title).
A doll will remain ever beautiful, ever willing, and ever present. No worries about cheating, divorce, or constant criticism/nagging/demanding.
They do require maintenance, but it’s not that difficult or time consuming. Weight is the biggest reason cited for not liking or enjoying their dolls, so choose something manageable, maybe less than seventy pounds, if you can. Bigger isn’t always better, particularly if you want to move her around your home and not just leave her in bed.
Shopping for and dressing them up is a profession unto itself. Great fun, if that’s what you enjoy, and something I personally never did with my human partners. A whole new world. Ditto for makeup.
You have to ask yourself honestly why you want a doll. Dolls will not replace women. They don’t talk or respond to you (short of various apps), they are inert, cold to the touch, and do require some care. They are heavy. They are not cheap.
But they can be wonderful mental health aids, and depending on your imagination, great companions and comforting.
Maybe the best money you’ll ever spend, if you choose the right one. Maybe you’ll even fall in love with her, if you choose well.
But they’re not for everyone, and not everyone views them as anything other than a lump of plastic. Do your research before you buy.
Good luck!
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Welcome to TDF. No it is not silly to want a doll at 60. A doll can be so many different things: a sex toy that you get out when you want to have sex, to a life companion that shares your world with you and many shades in between. Not only can a doll provide companionship but being a member provides contact to many people who can be come friends. Please keep us up to date with your choice of girl and post a few photos when you can because we would all love to meet her. Take care Vickylover.
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I agree with essentially Treepusher's whole post. Do your research, read posts and ask questions here, and if you do decide to purchase a doll choose your vendor carefully. I'm only a few weeks in with my silicone doll, but I'm happy with my purchase and keep learning new things about myself. (I'm just over a decade younger than you, for reference.) A number of members here have detailed their experiences as new doll owners, which may help you learn about the unexpected ups and downs of the process.Treepusher wrote: ↑Sun Dec 24, 2023 8:32 am Welcome to the forum! First, don’t think of her as a sex doll, think of her as a synthetic companion you can have sex with, if you so desire.
Loneliness pushes us to date or want a companion, no matter how old we are. Dolls do not entirely fill that function, but they go a long way towards it, without all the drama and downsides of dating.
A doll will remain ever beautiful, ever willing, and ever present.
They do require maintenance, but it’s not that difficult or time consuming. Weight is the biggest reason cited for not liking or enjoying their dolls, so choose something manageable, maybe less than seventy pounds, if you can. Bigger isn’t always better, particularly if you want to move her around your home and not just leave her in bed.
Shopping for and dressing them up is a profession unto itself. Great fun, if that’s what you enjoy, and something I personally never did with my human partners. A whole new world. Ditto for makeup.
You have to ask yourself honestly why you want a doll. Dolls will not replace women. They don’t talk or respond to you (short of various apps), they are inert, cold to the touch, and do require some care. They are heavy. They are not cheap.
But they can be wonderful mental health aids, and depending on your imagination, great companions and comforting.
Maybe the best money you’ll ever spend, if you choose the right one. Maybe you’ll even fall in love with her, if you choose well.
But they’re not for everyone, and not everyone views them as anything other than a lump of plastic. Do your research before you buy.
Good luck!
Definitely be aware of the weight (if you buy a heavier TPE or silicone doll) and take precautions. Learn to carry her in ways that are safe for her but stress you less, and consider a back brace to help you avoid injury.
While you do need to wash and powder a TPE or silicone doll from time to time (more often for TPE as I understand it), I've actually found that to be enormous fun. I deeply love physical touch, and the ritual of sponge-bathing every inch of my lady and then using my hands to fully distribute powder over her newly silky smooth skin is... very enjoyable.
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What is it like to be 60? Other than slowly replacing joints like hips and knees? LOL same as younger years but a lot slower.
Why have I not dated? I am a rape survivor and not comfortable in social environments to get dates for one, the other due to the rape I have it in my head that any woman that would be interested in me could do better as I proved to myself after divorcing my wife of 5 years for that reason... That I felt she could do better.. And she did She married our best friend a Dr. So I figured why bother Sadly this does not stop me from being sexually interested, Just not worthy of wasting a woman's time. I do realize these assumptions are false but I still have not felt the courage to pursue another relationship so I figured maybe try a doll?
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The large breasted dolls are very popular with some owners but smaller breasted dolls are available. Don't forget that most dolls these days use the M16 head connector, so if you see a head you like on a large chested doll you can most likely get that head on a doll body that you like. Best of luck with your search, take care Vickylover.
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Yeah it IS silly, but such is life yes? Fact is for those of us not actively dating, and with a bent to find joy with a doll via our imagination, well, it works.
For any of you lads under 30 though. Forget the doll. Find a REAL girl. But that's just my opinion.
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Re: New to the Forum and sex dolls
Not silly at all. In fact, a doll is probably the only sane choice considering the way things have become with dating these days.
If you are interested in a silicone or tpe doll, just be aware of the weight as these types of dolls will feel as if they weigh twice their advertised weight due to the way they are made as well as the weight distribution.
Also if you have any physical limitations, you may want to look into plushies or fabric dolls. They are amazing to sleep and cuddle with and can be very satisfying.
But whatever doll you choose just remember that no matter how real or lifelike she may be, you aren't getting a "woman is a box."
It will take a bit of imagination to make her come alive. In my experience, that is what makes a doll a true companion rather than just a sex toy.
Oh and welcome to the forum!
Girlfriends are for guys who haven't found the right doll yet.
I feel much better now that I've given up hope.