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jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Sat Apr 01, 2017 2:57 pm

Greetings,
I've been here a couple weeks now, but haven't yet formally introduced myself.

Personal stuff first (family, struggles, etc): I'm husband and father of 2, and my wife is very supportive of me acquiring a love doll since her and my libido/sex drive don't quite sync up (she's happy with a couple times a week, I'd be happy with a couple times a day). Additionally, I have difficulty getting off via traditional masturbation and have tried things such as Fleshlights which doesn't quite do it for me. Finally, I have what seems to be a medical issue where I only feel orgasms from about 1 out of 10 or so ejaculations, and most of the time I either feel nothing or a sensation like I need to urinate. This has been an issue since my vasectomy, and my doctor doesn't know what is causing it or how to fix it, so my solution is to increase the frequency of ejaculations so I can at least experience orgasms semi-regularly (hence another reason for the interest in a sex doll).

Now for the more interesting topic (dolls): I've been researching these dolls a lot, with topics including TPE vs PS, maintenance and care, the vaginal ball issue, etc. and have decided on a TPE doll with insert. I have a YL148cm face #56 coming shortly from RLSD. My only experience with sex dolls so far is a WM doll knockoff I ordered via Amazon Prime (and have hence returned), which looked great, but the skin was a bit too firm compared to how a legitimate one should have been (was tougher than Fleshlight material). I'm considering another 111cm Z-Onedoll or a 108cm OR Doll as an extra to have for certain positions (since the 148cm will be quite heavy) as they are on sale from a certain vendor. That's the extent of my experience so far, and I will provide updates once my doll comes in the mail.

That's about all there is to say about me. I'm glad there is a community here I can interact with regarding these things and hope to be a contributing participant and not just a passive information absorber.

Thanks!

Stevo85 · Post by **Stevo85** » Sat Apr 01, 2017 4:16 pm

Welcome to TDF!

it seems youre already quite up to date. Never the less, im looking forward to hearing more from you and your future doll!

SeniorDollLover · Post by **SeniorDollLover** » Sat Apr 01, 2017 5:29 pm

Welcome! Here you will find many wonderful things. Thanks for sharing your story, and the best on your new doll.

Aberdare · Post by **Aberdare** » Sat Apr 01, 2017 5:32 pm

Welcome to TDF!

Abe

Unknown2 · Post by **Unknown2** » Sat Apr 01, 2017 5:49 pm

Hello and welcome!

Unknown2

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:03 pm

I finally got her in, but I've been struggling with the insert for over an hour. No matter how much cornstarch I use, there is an insane amount of friction trying to get the insert in. I'm stretching the opening so much I feel it's going to rip, and it still won't go more than halfway in. I tried to follow the video on RLSD. Can someone help?

Post by **TJ_Foxx** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:21 pm

Hey there jkh! OMG! talk about a mood killer. We are here to help! Rinse off all the cornstarch Get yoruself a spray bottle, and fill it with isopropyl give the doll's cavity a quick spray as well as int OUTSIDE OF THE INSERT. The insert will slip right in. When you are finished, as it were, be sure to slide the insert out, clean it well and turn it inside out to dry. Once dry turn the insert back to nirmal and store it in a ziplock bag with light dustingof corstarch baby powder.

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:26 pm

TJ_Foxx wrote:Hey there jkh! OMG! talk about a mood killer. We are here to help! Get yoruself a spray bottle, and fill it with isopropyl give the doll's cavity a quick spray as well as int OUTSIDE OF THE INSERT. The insert will slip right in. When you are finished, as it were, be sure to slide the insert out, clean it well and turn it inside out to dry.

Thanks for the advice! I managed to cram the thing in there and get a quick round in (took like 5 minutes because I was a bit flustered) since I really wanted to test it before I have to pick the kids up from school. Is isopropyl safe for tpe, and what percentage? I'll definitely do that if it's safe and will help. The insert stretched like he'll trying to pull it out afterwards. Also, does turning the insert inside out risk ripping it?

Thanks!

Post by **TJ_Foxx** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:49 pm

jkh0208 wrote:
TJ_Foxx wrote:Hey there jkh! OMG! talk about a mood killer. We are here to help! Get yoruself a spray bottle, and fill it with isopropyl give the doll's cavity a quick spray as well as int OUTSIDE OF THE INSERT. The insert will slip right in. When you are finished, as it were, be sure to slide the insert out, clean it well and turn it inside out to dry.
Thanks for the advice! I managed to cram the thing in there and get a quick round in (took like 5 minutes because I was a bit flustered) since I really wanted to test it before I have to pick the kids up from school. Is isopropyl safe for tpe, and what percentage? I'll definitely do that if it's safe and will help. The insert stretched like he'll trying to pull it out afterwards. Also, does turning the insert inside out risk ripping it?

Thanks!

I used a standard mix % from the drug store (Walgreens) has danaged the silicone or TPE yet on any of my dolls. Be care ful taking the isert out. kind of coax it along form the vaginal opening so you dont tear the insert or the opening. Yes, it is a risk turning the insert insdie out, so be careful. The risk of mold is higher if you do not. You could use a small aquarium air pump to circulate air in the
cavity and the insert too. The Key- keep her clean and dry.

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 4:55 pm

TJ_Foxx wrote:
jkh0208 wrote:
TJ_Foxx wrote:Hey there jkh! OMG! talk about a mood killer. We are here to help! Get yoruself a spray bottle, and fill it with isopropyl give the doll's cavity a quick spray as well as int OUTSIDE OF THE INSERT. The insert will slip right in. When you are finished, as it were, be sure to slide the insert out, clean it well and turn it inside out to dry.
Thanks for the advice! I managed to cram the thing in there and get a quick round in (took like 5 minutes because I was a bit flustered) since I really wanted to test it before I have to pick the kids up from school. Is isopropyl safe for tpe, and what percentage? I'll definitely do that if it's safe and will help. The insert stretched like he'll trying to pull it out afterwards. Also, does turning the insert inside out risk ripping it?

Thanks!

I used a standard mix % from the drug store (Walgreens) has danaged the silicone or TPE yet on any of my dolls. Be care ful taking the isert out. kind of coax it along form the vaginal opening so you dont tear the insert or the opening. Yes, it is a risk turning the insert insdie out, so be careful. The risk of mold is higher if you do not. You could use a small aquarium air pump to circulate air in the
cavity and the insert too. The Key- keep her clean and dry.

Thanks for the response. I have both 70% and 92% isopropyl. I looked inside the canal and don't see a vaginal ball in the small slit in the back. Do the insert style dolls not have a vaginal ball, or is it tucked deeper past the slit in the back of the canal?

Thanks!

Edit: reading a lot of posts saying not to use isopropyl on TPE. Would vaseline or mineral oil help?

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 7:28 pm

I'm still having no luck with the insert. I'm starting to regret not just getting a fixed vagina.

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 7:42 pm

Well I did it, I've already broken my $2000 doll. While struggling with this freaking insert, it manages to rip a chunk out if the labia, so it now has a significant visual defect. Why would they design this thing to be so difficult to insert?

Post by **Booty Call Dolls** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 10:05 pm

jkh0208,
Please email me pictures of the damage to yourdollusa@gmail.com, ok?
I am very sorry you had this happen to you.
Classic example of why IMHO, vendors need to do more than just sell dolls.
They need to educate people so this sort of thing does NOT happen.
Although we were not your vendor of choice, we will do our best to make things better if you would like our help. The door is always open.
Best,
Jeff and the BCD Girls

jkh0208 · Post by **jkh0208** » Thu Apr 06, 2017 10:11 pm

Booty Call Dolls wrote:jkh0208,
Please email me pictures of the damage to yourdollusa@gmail.com, ok?
I am very sorry you had this happen to you.
Classic example of why IMHO, vendors need to do more than just sell dolls.
They need to educate people so this sort of thing does NOT happen.
Although we were not your vendor of choice, we will do our best to make things better if you would like our help. The door is always open.
Best,
Jeff and the BCD Girls

Thanks for the response. I emailed you the pics.