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Well? any comments? these are a few pros and againsts about a Real Doll and a real flesh and blood woman.

Real Doll.
Pros:
1.- She NEVER says no
2.- She´s there for you 24/7
3.- You can dress her up anyway you like
4.- She looks hot and WILL stay hot for the rest of your life
5.- INCREDIBLY life like.

Againsts:
1.- Difficult storage
2.- Cleaning after each use
3.- Keep it as a secret if you don´t want other people to know about it.
4.- Not all of the sex positions are available (much less missionary! )
5.- She CAN´T say sweet stuff to you, or even love you back

Real women.
Pros:
1.- Keep them happy and you´ll thank yourself later on in bed with her
2.- If she´s phisically able, sex positions may not be a problem
3.- You can cuddle up to her so she can treat you like an innocent little boy
4.- You may have a hot home made dinner in a romantic evening.
5.- You don´t have to stuff her in a closet (LOL, I just couldn´t resist! )

Againsts:
1.- She may be tired or not feeling well when you "want some".
2.- You can´t handle her in whatever way you want while having sex, she may not feel confortable.
3.- With the slightest suspicion of you having an affair with another woman, you might very well spend the night in the living room on the sofa
4.- You have cash to spare on her in your whole life time.
5.- FORGET to rest on sundays

Any toughts you might want to add?

You might not be able to dress her up any way you like.
She can do missionary position.
More sexual durability, unless you've an uncommon nymphomaniac.

Lack of affection, a big problem. Oral much better with female, but most of this is because of tongue and clean-up.

You can feel anything any time and it doesn't matter if it leads to anything or not and you'll not get slapped.

You can watch TV without her saying, 'What's wrong'?
No chance of cheating, disease, nor pregnancy.

Some bioelectric/biochem responses not present when interacting with RDoll.

Againsts:
1.- She may be tired or not feeling well when you "want some".

Actually, my husband is the one thats tired, and me begging for 'some'.
And he wants to give me his money, believe me or not, I just can't
spend all of it, LOLz.
Other than that, I guess what you say is accurate.
What you say is pretty funny too. ^ ^
Do you have a Realdoll, Fargo? I'm kinda behind on stuff going on in
the forum. >_<
Oh, and Inkling, your Darlene is gorgeous! Thats the face type I want!
I can't get out of my head how pretty she is!! I hope you are happy
with her!!

~Smenkhkare~

You and me both, Smenky Of course, we're newlyweds---wait till we have kids!!!

Don't underestimate having a partner, guys. There's something to be said about having someone who loves you even when you're sick, unemployed, or old that kicks the prettiest Realdoll right in the ass

Rainy

All sexual experiences are good!

Is a Realdoll better than a Venus2000?

Come on - the fun in life is having it all!!!

Realdoll ROCK in bed - very good in all aspects!

However, a hot Gal AND a Venus2000 rock too!!!

I just think a Realdoll is a better choice than a hooker !!!!!

Some men do turn to them - a Realdoll is MUCH safer !!!!

All these comparisons between Realdoll and a Realwoman must take place on common ground to be accurate. A realdoll can't cook. A realwoman can't stay in great shape. They are two completely different things.

So ... to compare, you would have to have a Realwoman in great shape who loves being taken as a sexual object whenever you wish, however you wish, and without complaints about anything!

If this is the case, then a Realwoman will always win.

But since a Realwoman is often incompatible with the male's sexual drive, attitudes, perversions, etc ... then a Realdoll is a great addition to sex.

Mike Kelly said it best

Come on - the fun in life is having it all!!!

I don't believe there is a productive comparison between Realwoman and a Realdoll if the comparisons have to do with anything other than pure sex play. All things being the same ... a Realwoman would kick Realdolls ass. The problem is there are so very few of these kind of Realwomen.

My problem is, and ladies this is not directed at you because what I am about to say applies to everyone (I just happen to be heterosexual), is I get bored with people after a not so short time. It's not their fault, I'm the boring one, I'm the one who, well... um... I just don't have much to say to people, especially on the regular basis that most relationships require. It's completely on me, I'm a very simple person that just isn't interested in all the "conversation" that is a must in any sort of human social setting or close intimate relationship. Maybe I'm an idiot (not really), maybe I'm just anti-social, but it seems like I can only deal with the company of others in small doses. This quality (or lack of) has sabotaged most of my friendships and relationships with women.

I don't want to come off sounding like an asshole, or a snob, or some sociopathic loner... I just simply seem to simple to maintain any interest from, or in other people - especially women.

The doll obviously is not much of a conversationalist, and therefore we'd(I'd imagine) probably get along swimmingly. Great sex and no talking about it or anything else afterwards... sounds good to me.

I seem to only want to deal with people half an hour at a time, and not more than 2 hours a day - as long as the 2 hours are not consecutive.

Maybe this has to do with introversion.
Most have come to believe that introversion means being shy, but it does not. Most around me IRL don't know how introverted I am, because they do not see me being too shy.

Introversion is actually a means by which a minority of the population communicate within their brains. This communication also influences the manner in which they communicate with others.

An introvert internalizes communication, mixes it about, then extroverts to give others a response. This process wears an introvert out before it would an extrovert. Introverts are more likely to be better listeners.

From a very early age, the introvert generalizes the reactions of others, who are usually extroverts. Those generalizations become internalized, and often results in the introvert becoming shy. Being shy is the <i>effect</i> but is not the usual cause - at least not for the introvert.

There's more, but this is not directly related to dolls.

Well put Ink,

I would have to agree with that. It has always appeared to me that most people say and do things without thinking, and this creates a lot of bullshit in the world. If we tend to contemplate our words and actions more than most, we become very quickly labeled as shy and quiet. It's not that I can't respond to what you are saying, it's just I want to think about what you've said and fashion a sensible response before speaking. But this hesitation leaves you open for attack by people with so called aggressive, extroverted, type-A personalities. Nevermind the fact that what these people are generally saying has no merit, makes no sense, and generally sounds exactly like what I heard on tv the night before - as long as they get it out of their mouths the quickest and the loudest, they win!

So in conclusion, I agree... I am an introvert who has lost the desire to converse with others over the years because most of what I hear and see makes little sense to my rational, contemplative mind. I'm not saying I'm smarter than everyone else, frankly I don't think I'm that bright at all, but I seem to have pretty good judgement and see things as they really are - not just how we'd like them to be.

And now in a pitiful attempt to tie this all into the ownerhip of a sex doll, hey I'm more than happy to grunt and groan for the both of us...Yippie!

Raingirl wrote:You and me both, Smenky Of course, we're newlyweds---wait till we have kids!!!

Don't underestimate having a partner, guys. There's something to be said about having someone who loves you even when you're sick, unemployed, or old that kicks the prettiest Realdoll right in the ass

Rainy

Hey Girlie! I can't wait til me and my husband have kids! =D
You said it! He loves me even when I'm being the bitchiest. >_<;;
My hubby is 10 years older then me, I love him to death! Even after he gets old and gray. ^__^
Oh, and I can't cook much, but I am learning! ^__^\V/

~Smenky <--(hey I like that! thankz Rainy xD)~

Hawaii Jeff:

But this hesitation leaves you open for attack by people with so called aggressive, extroverted, type-A personalities

You just summed up my ex-marriage!

BTW -- I spent a Honeymoon in Hawaii. There is a marriage somewhere on that island that died!

Smenkhkare wrote:
~Smenky <--(hey I like that! thankz Rainy xD)~

I used that weeks ago. Now I'm hurt.

Inkling, I blew it up in my first post that started this topic when I refered to sex positions with a Real Doll, what I tried to mean was that GIRL ON TOP it´s not very recomendable even if the doll is brand new, not missionary, like I said by mistake

Smenkhkare, saddly, I don´t have a Real Doll,....... yet! but I do know some stuff thanks to the numerous Real Doll sites available trough out the Internet and the good people around here that tend to post their threads and even reply to other person´s discussion board, BTW, you have about 53 posts, but I haven´t see you very much, in wich forum threads do you tend to hang out the most? Something else, I think that it´s WONDERFUL that you get along just fine with your husband, maybe you still can´t cook a gourmet dinner, but like you said, you´re getting the hang of it, hell! the most that I can make about food are hot dogs and cheese burgers! LOL

I have to disagree here "doll on top" is one of the best positions if not the best,and as long as your carefull its fine for her too.It takes a little longer to get in position and such but it is well worth it in the end.
Don't take this the wrong way but there is a very distinct difference between READING about a realdoll and actually OWNING one.
I think all the owners will agree with me here, you can read about a realdoll until your dead and although it will help a little it still will not prepare you for actual ownership.

Fargo wrote: what I tried to mean was that GIRL ON TOP it´s not very recomendable even if the doll is brand new, not missionary, like I said by mistake

Smenkhkare, saddly, I don´t have a Real Doll,....... yet! :

Learning from the experience of others is a very positive leap ahead, but you are right - the experience will not be quite what someone imagines.

Case in point: just this morning I spent a whole hour dressing, doing hair, and trying to get Darlene to sit on a resin love seat without sliding forward. It's not easy to have smooth fabric of skirt under her butt while seating her.

Also, Darlene is starting to irritate me because I thought with a Queen size bed there would be plenty of room. Since she has to have her legs spread so far appart, she takes up more than half the bed. I'm used to sprawling all over a double bed. Now I've got a larger bed and less room. It's like sleeping on a twin.

I just hope she appreciates all this shit...

I remember someone once wrote that getting a RDoll is a lifestyle choice. Those who do not yet own a RDoll really ought to pay attention to that. Darlene has more of an influence on my life than what I would have imagined.
And just like marriage, it's not all a rose garden.

That said, I can do and feel anything I want any time I want and I'll never get slapped and it doesn't matter if it leads to anything or not. If I want to feel her boobies, I feel her boobies. If I want a sexy leg laying across me, I move a leg. Simple.

BTW, girl-on-top is not easy to do, but it can be done without damaging doll. Two biggest problems is you have to remember to take your time in getting back out from under her - and this is easy for me to forget. Other one is I wish she would look down at me instead of straight ahead or up in the air. On top would be much better if she could look down on me. Uh, I don't mean think less of me - you know what I mean.