Has anyone successfully introduced a RD to a Real Woman???

tired · Post by **tired** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 3:39 am

I started dating a woman and my doll will be arriving soon. I am wondering if anyone has successfully introduced a RD to a real woman. The general consensus is to keep the doll hidden.

SiliconeWorld · Post by **SiliconeWorld** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 11:28 am

Great post topic for sure. Be interesting to know if anyone was successful at introducing a RD to a RG.
I can see jealousy rearing it's ugly head. RD are perfect and RGs may be intimidated. Face it, women are always comparing .

Next thing , she may be intimidated as to WHY you have a RD. Always found that RGs are extremely needy and demanding of a man's time. Wanting to be the center of the universe.

Look forward to seeing if there has been ant successful introductions!

rubherkitty · Post by **rubherkitty** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 12:54 pm

Just tell her you bought it on a whim or just for fun before you met her. Jokingly tell her maybe you all could have a 3-some. Try to make her part of the experience and not a outsider. Show her some dolls on TDF maybe to get her interest up. There are probably some hot "doll with doll" shoots if you search.

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 1:35 pm

rubherkitty wrote:Just tell her you bought it on a whim or just for fun before you met her. Jokingly tell her maybe you all could have a 3-some. Try to make her part of the experience and not a outsider. Show her some dolls on TDF maybe to get her interest up. There are probably some hot "doll with doll" shoots if you search.

Very very good advice. I'd have a smile on your face, wink at her and ask not to be murdered. When she finds it's only a doll, and she was ordered ages ago, she might be quite relieved that the bad news is only a doll. Take her for a good meal with a good glass of wine and when she's in a good mood tell her you've got a confession. Find out first if she's ever used anything like a carrot . . . it's just that men-carrots are more inconvenient . . .

Best wishes

Harem

rubherkitty · Post by **rubherkitty** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 5:34 pm

Thanks Harem, good advice as well.

Another big or biggest issue is we don't know your lady friend. Is she kind of wild, playful or kinky in bed? Juicy details welcome! LOL.
Or is she a Tuesday night only, missionary only w/ the lights out?

havefun · Post by **havefun** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 6:08 pm

I can't answer your question completely but here's something that happened to me a few months ago. I was talking to an old girlfriend on the cell phone with face time. I was laying in bed with Chrissy next to me. I didn't think the doll could be seen but I think she could have. Now the old girlfriend won't take my calls or answer my texts. I feel if she did see the doll and that's why she won't talk to me i don't need her even as a friend.

haremlover · Post by **haremlover** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 6:22 pm

havefun wrote:I can't answer your question completely but here's something that happened to me a few months ago. I was talking to an old girlfriend on the cell phone with face time. I was laying in bed with Chrissy next to me. I didn't think the doll could be seen but I think she could have. Now the old girlfriend won't take my calls or answer my texts. I feel if she did see the doll and that's why she won't talk to me i don't need her even as a friend.

But she probably thought she was a well behaved woman . . .

Best wishes

Harem

tired · Post by **tired** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 8:42 pm

Thanks for the suggestions and insights. My lady friend is NOT into porn. I've been buying her bright red lipstick, but she won't wear it. She is a Christian, who believes, but does not go to church. Intimacy wise, she let's me do what I want, when I want; except no backdoor (I'm not really into that anyway).

She really likes me and has been introducing me to her family members, although we have been dating for only a month or so. The more I think of it, the locked closet idea seems like the plan.

upsux · Post by **upsux** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 8:52 pm

So if push comes to shove - which are you choosing?

tired · Post by **tired** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 8:52 pm

havefun wrote:I can't answer your question completely but here's something that happened to me a few months ago. I was talking to an old girlfriend on the cell phone with face time. I was laying in bed with Chrissy next to me. I didn't think the doll could be seen but I think she could have. Now the old girlfriend won't take my calls or answer my texts. I feel if she did see the doll and that's why she won't talk to me i don't need her even as a friend.

Thanks for sharing. My sympathies. I understand what women do about 80% of the time; the other 20% of the time I'm clueless. In other words, I don't understand women; as I get older, I don't even try. Just remember the lesson from the experience...turn off the face time feature. Best wishes my friend.

tired · Post by **tired** » Thu Mar 05, 2015 9:00 pm

upsux wrote:So if push comes to shove - which are you choosing?

If my GF gives me an ultimatum (GF or RD), then I will miss my GF. I do not like it when people give me ultimatums.

LovesBlackWomen · Post by **LovesBlackWomen** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 12:49 am

I can't answer that question since I was never in that position.
Gina (my RealDoll) doesn't know I'm still looking to buy another RealDoll, if one I like comes along.

Supersoul · Post by **Supersoul** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 1:04 am

Its a tricky one, I would say most women would not appreciate the competition and lets face it Real Dolls are incredibly beautiful, a real girl would have to be pretty confident in herself to not feel threatened.
Obviously my wife is ok with my dolls, she realises a couple of important points, I damn sure am not going to cheat on her, I am not going to get grumpy because my balls are throbbing in pain - daily and I am really happy, I am lucky I found an amazing woman that actually wants to see me happy. We still enjoy intimacy together as well and she benefits from my amazing staying power and more orgasms than she knows what to do with. Dose she feel threatened by them? Yea a bit, but its not enough to be a problem.

Tired you have indicated that your girlfriend is strongly not into porn, sorry mate if that's the case I cant see her being into a high end sex doll, I could be wrong but...
You may find yourself in a strange situation though if you keep your doll hidden from her as its not being honest and its up too you how that would affect you, also if she finds her somehow it could turn really pear shaped and you could end up hurting her badly, so its a tough one. I wish you well with it.

Ynotmore · Post by **Ynotmore** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 8:39 am

Honesty is the best policy. If you can't talk about all of your aspect or show them then what is the point of a relationship.
If you realy care for this woman tell her then let her decide. You might whant to go slow so its not overwhelming. Start with this site find out what she thinks GO SLOW no pictures point out that there are other females on this site. Then the more Art minded photos. See how that works then your Doll. This is how I personally go about showing a RG too my Doll if I had either. Remember that we can only give you our opinion its up too you. GOOD LUCK

rubherkitty · Post by **rubherkitty** » Fri Mar 06, 2015 9:11 am

Have you already owned a doll/s and know you even like them?
Do you want to have a relationship w/a RW sometime or will a doll do?
Do you have good women flocking to your door to date you where you could let this one pass?